The decision we make will never only affect us, its like a pebble, dropped into a pond, the ripples go far and wide. Our decision will always bear pain and suffering, we just don't know who will be affected by it. This does not mean though that martyrdom will always make the right choice, we may choose what WE think is better for the situation, but do you actually know it is what's better for them? Who are we, to decide that leaving is the right thing to do? Who are we, to impose that this will be for the better? We are after all, human, prone to mistakes, no matter how much we consider all the facts, the people involved and the situation we are in. Our choice will always hurt someone, it will always cause pain, either to us, or to them.

We will never make the right choice, because there is no such thing as the right choice. We can only have a better option. We can never guarantee happiness, so the only question remaining is, why rush things? Can't we just stop, take a moment, and take in what we have right now? Why must an answer be necessary as for moment, when, we can just enjoy the present? Why run to the garden, when you can walk slowly while enjoying the fragrance of the roses? We may have gotten an answer, it may have been the better option, it may have been the worst, but one thing is for sure, it will hurt