Sunday, June 7, 2009

her future..

Three girls, Holly; Kendra; and Bridget, live together with Hugh Hefner in a mansion. the Girls of The Playboy Mansion are young, blonde, sexy, beautiful, yet too ambitious. These girls are ready to be in front of the camera and live with this old man. They play and party and just that. Yes, one thing that these girls do is play. For them, wearing two piece bikinis (in two super tiny pieces) and pose in front of the camera is just playing. Being watched by the world is someone who’s popular, no matter what they see on you. These girls are ridiculous. How could they take kissing an old man (very very old man) and be treated like a porn star. I also pity the family of these three women because if I were the parents of these women, I would be shameful. I could not accept the fact that my daughter is on TV, might have sex with this dirty old man and the whole world might be watching. As a mother looking at my daughter being treated that low is very degrading. It is also funny why blonde girl are called dumb. They are beautiful. But why are they using this beauty in such a way? Why are they allowing people to do that to them? Maybe they are willing,.. willing for popularity? For wealth? This reality show is distorting the way a woman should be respected.

I was disturbed when I flicked on the channel of our television. I saw this program and I tried to watch. I saw these blonde girls having mall tours. Many people are falling in line to have their signatures and pictures. Men and women, they are all there. But of course men would always have that menacing look in their eyes. When a young girl, around 5 years old, came out of the line to have her turn for the picture and signature taking, I was so shocked. How does she know about these blonde girls? Is she allowed to watch the ‘girls of the playboy mansion’? I wonder how that young girl would look on herself after 10 years. How will she respect herself if she sees these girls act that way, treated that way..Scary..

Saturday, June 6, 2009

date my mom

Dating is normal. All ages as long as the person is single, though some people who has a relationship still goes into dating. This show is a reality show about a guy who wants to date a lady. Before he do so, he has to choose from three women AND this women is the mother of the ladies whom they will have a date with. There will have a three set of dates. Every date is a different mom. Every mother has to make an impression for her daughter so that the guy will choose her daughter to be his date. After the three dates that went through, the guy will make a decision on who he will pick.

This could be an adventurous way of having a blind date. You don’t know who your date is but on the side of the guy, he could somehow see the personality of the girl through the mother. For the girl’s part? She could bribe her mother to be good, behave and talk about all the good things about her. Also, the mother could see the character of the guy through the set up date that they have. On the other hand, this show is funny because you could see the mothers ready to do anything in their date. She can dance even though she can’t. She can do boxing even if her body is aching. She can do bungee jumping though her heart wants to pop out from her lungs. Although those mothers look like they are selling their daughter for a date with this guy, I find this mothers so cool. They are willing to meet a new guy, do an activity that they might have no idea what it is, just to make their daughter happy. It is just shameful if your daughter was not chosen. But still they are still into this game.

Friday, June 5, 2009

manhattan's elite

this TV series 'gossip girl' and THE ONLY series that i ever watch. tv series usually bores me. but this is different i could say. I am very hooked up in this show that’s why I downloaded all the episodes in season2. I started watching this when I borrowed a dvd from my friend which is a compilation of season 1. if you’re in to fashion. No reason for you not to like this show. All the characters are so well dressed. And I love to put myself into the shoes of the characters and set it into real life. Maybe one of my dreams is to be one of the elites. Yes it’s crazy, but hey! Everyone is free to have big dream right? I love wearing suites, dress, high heels, etc. also, I love to be do all I want to do. Like in the show, they are free to do whatever they want to do. Although they have their parents with them, freedom is much expressed by these people. Knowing that america’s culture is different from ours, it is kinda sad that we are different from them.

Frankly, this show really has bad values that are really dangerous to the viewers who are so hooked up to what they are watching. Since this series shows a lot of liberation, as teenage viewers, their belief on what is right might be destroyed. For example, having sex during high school is an amplification of how free they are. This might be taken as an ‘okay’ scenario by the young ones and sadly, they might apply this in their lives. Also, there are lots of scandalous things that is happening in this tv show. Teenagers post gossip on a website and this gossip spreads to everyone. This is hazardous to the people because this shows that it is a norm to post gossip and tell everyone what is happening to someone’s life. Even if it’s not true. I know that all shows that we see on tv present values like in ‘gossip girl”. This show would like to illustrate, love, friendship, relationship, priorities, loyalty. But all show has its down side. We just have to be cautious to what we see and hear. Beware while watching.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

finding your true love?

more people are getting into reality shows. one of the is looking for your lifetime partner, through a television show. a Bachelor would look for his bride-to-be and lots of women are willing to be part of this craziness. i honestly watch this show. but i don't know why this reality show draws my attention. whenever i flip through the channels and saw an episode of the show, i would stop and watch..and the next thing i would do is to criticize the show. everyone would like to have a husband/wife in the future ( or at least majority of human beings would like to). but is it really true to fall in love, while cameras are following you? while the whole world are watching you? i can't see what is sweet in what they are doing. the fact that in one series, more or less 20 women compete for one bachelor. every episode, they are eliminated until the last one stands. and the guy will propose for the girl. i ask myself whether falling in love is a competition like the reality show is presenting to the public. aren't they destroying the true perspective of 'love'? i also pity the women who are part of this what i so-called 'game'. although they are foolish because they joined in, but maybe before they joined, they thought this as a literal game. maybe they thought that this is just a game which the prettiest, sexiest women will win. they might not know that they are involving their feelings to this 'game'. image yourself having a sex with the bachelor then the next day, another girl will have the same situation that you thought special. it is like you are sharing a cupcake to every girl there. and the sad part is.. you don't know what the true feelings of the bachelor. if he say 'i love you' or 'i am falling in love with you', is he also saying it to two or more girls in the show?


Wednesday, June 3, 2009

spending time on eating

sweat pouring down my face, *pant pant*..couldn't breathe.. my muscle is aching.. few more steps..

a routine that i've missed so much when i was in high school. thrice a week i have my basketball training. i miss the hard trainings that we had especially when a league is coming. but what i miss the most? my physically fit body. :( during those times, no matter how many i ate, it is alright because it will all be burned. rice, chocolates, chips, all the sinful food that anyone could take..i could eat them without hesitation back then. i dare to eat them because during practices, i knew that it is worth eatiiing.. there's really big difference now. even though i don't eat.. i can feel that i am getting fat. ok exaggerating. how can a person get fat if he/she is NOT eating anything. blaaa.. what i mean is that even if i eat everything in small amout, i feel that i am committing a crime. haha.. paranoid? it is just so fun to eat without thinking of your weight and anything. during my free time, all think is food. (well, sometimes..)

i have to nag..again! i have to nag, i have to nag, i have to naaaag! why? because i feel that it is unfair that some people don't get fat while me? i eat only few, yet tadaaaa!



Tuesday, June 2, 2009

all around internet

internet is very common to all the people around the world. it is used by everyone, such as corporate workers, teachers, students, designers, businessmen, practitioners, etc. internet makes our life more convenient and it conserves time a lot. frequently, we go to our computer, opens it and connect to the available internet connection there is. as easy as it is, we type into the search engine that we wold like to seek. immediately, there are lots information that we could access. searching on the internet is such that trouble-free unlike on searching on the library. we don't have to open a lot of books in order to gather the information that we need. having the internet is no hassle at all. browsing the internet is very helpful to students because it could enhance their knowledge and this could also help them in their assignments. also, career people could benefit to the use of internet. these people could update themselves to the new trends or the news through the internet. besides from searching, we could also upload pictures, videos, audios, etc. through this medium. we could reach everyone around the world and share our thoughts, ideas, and the things that we worked on. on the other hand, we could download stuff through the internet. the power of internet doesn't stop there. there's online shopping which we could have transactions things using the internet. we could order/deliver whether locally or internationally. also, there are online classes which some of the universities practice. in case that the professor couldn't meet his/her class, he/she could still facilitate a discussion/lecture. there's also online enrollment which is a lot convenient for the students because they don't have to fall in line in order to register their name to the class/classes that they will attend for the next school year. by the internet, people could also communicate by using chat, e-mails, etc. this is a way we could contact people in case we don't have a telephone or cellphone. social networking nowadays is very popular. facebook, multiply, friendster, and twitter are just some of the social network that people use in order to meet other colleagues. this is also a way where we can update ourselves on what is happening to our friends that we seldom talk to.

internet really has a lot of advantages and it can aid us to our needs. BUT we must not take for granted the down side of it. many young teenagers who are very much engage to online games, which have bad affects on their academic grades. sometimes, even behaviors are destroyed. also, since internet is accessible to all, there's no privacy. people could download everything which is unacceptable. we should remember that internet could help us, or entertain us. we are so lucky that in our generation, people get to invent this thing. it is our own liability to use it properly and the responsibility is on our fingers.

Monday, June 1, 2009

they could sing!

there is a lot of talent in this world. it comes in different variety, forms, etc. one talent that i witnessed a lot lately is singing. yes, we can turn on the television set at our homes and see people who sing. they certainly catch the attention of the viewers. but me? honestly, i can't sing even just a line that is in the right tune. BUT i'm proud to say that i am involved to a group who can sing their heart out and inspire the audience. maybe that's the reason why i think they are awesome. these people ARE awesome. singing is their passion. they live by facing the crowd, holding their mics, and express the form of art that they know. i believe in this people. and i can see that they could entertain the people who watch the the ones we see on TV.

like i said, singing is a form of art, and this art will never die not unless people will stop singing. moreover, no one can put MY group down because they are here for a purpose. they are here to be up on the stage and sing. what am i here for? to warn those people who put them down. be prepared guys. they will prove you all wrong. as long as these people has the passion, they won't let put this group into failure. i know you are looking forward for the time that we will be in the pit. be ready, because you might looking down long enough and you might not see that we are already up in there reaching the sky. we don't care how good you are, how talented you are (if that's really the case) but one thing you could do is.. step back. let us do our thing. and swallow all your comments to yourself because we don't need it. we need criticism that will help us improve, not that will make us loose our control and be completely annoyed.